I often think about the fact that we don't live forever, and of the people I have loved who are gone. I realise that the only way I'll see them again is when I die, which implies that I believe there is something greater.
And so I try not to scoff at other people's faiths or hold religion as something that is inevitably destructive.
But then I read stuff like this:
" The mother of an 11-year-old central Wisconsin girl who died of undiagnosed diabetes as the family prayed for her to get better testified Tuesday that she believes sickness is caused by sin and can be cured by God.
Leilani Neumann told the jury in her husband's trial that she thought her daughter's March 2008 illness was a test of her religious faith and she didn't take the girl to a doctor because that would have been "complete disobedience to what we believe."
Dale Neumann, 47, is charged with second-degree reckless homicide in the 2008 death of his daughter Madeline Neumann, called Kara by her parents. His wife was convicted of the same charge this spring and faces up to 25 years in prison when sentenced Oct. 6.
Prosecutors contend Dale Neumann recklessly killed the youngest of his four children by ignoring her deteriorating health. They claim Neumann had a legal duty to take her to a doctor.
Leilani Neumann testified for more than three hours Tuesday, describing the events leading up to her daughter's March 23, 2008, death on a mattress on the floor of the family's rural Weston home as people surrounded her and prayed. Someone called 911 when she stopped breathing.
The mother said that she and her husband believed their daughter's deteriorating condition may have been the result of a falling out with another couple, and called them once the girl was unconscious and persuaded them to come pray for the girl.
She said that although her children had been to medical doctors before, she viewed Madeline's March 2008 illness as "something spiritual."
Leilani Neumann also said that she did not realize her daughter was seriously ill until the day before her death, when the girl was weak and pale and had trouble speaking.
"I asked her if she loved Jesus," the mother testified. "She might have said yes. I know for sure she was acknowledging it. What sounds came out, I don't remember. She was making noises. ... My focus definitely was to pray."
A pediatric expert on diabetes told the jury Monday that even right before her death, doctors might have been able to save the girl's life had she been brought to a hospital. "
...your focus was "definitely to pray". Your focus was to let your daughter die so you could appease your superstition.
God damn you.
Article here.
Don't blame God for this woman's stupidity Magpie. If God wanted diabetics to die then why did he give us insulin?
ReplyDeleteI could go on and on. I don't have a problem with God. It's the freaking morons that think they know what He wants that drive me away from organized religion. They're the dangerous ones.
I appreciate your comment Truth.
ReplyDeleteI am taking aim here at the assumption that bad things happen to people because they deserve it, and sheep mentality in general.
I am not "blaming God". I actually have no belief in the existence of a God in the usual religious sense.
Agreed. Sometimes, "shit happens." I lost my oldest brother a few years ago to a long battle with cancer. He didn't smoke. He didn't drink. He just got cancer. God damn cancer.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry to hear that, Truth.
ReplyDeleteIt cannot be understood by those who haven't had it happen to them, what it means to lose someone way before their time. How you miss all those moments that should have been, and now won't be.
I posted about this story during the first month of my site back in March '08 and it makes me just as mad now as it did then. Some people have no right to be raising children.
ReplyDeleteI have a relative who is deeply religious.
ReplyDeleteShe is on meds for depression and her life is a mess, when on paper she had everything going for her. She has let her faith destroy every relationship she's ever had.
Yes it's just one person, but the point remains that, for all her dutiful attentions, her faith has given her back nothing but unhappiness.
Yet she at least was free to grow up and make her own choices.